Whether it’s the first date or the fiftieth, the first kiss always leads to excitement as well as a few questions. Should you make the first move or should you follow his lead? What can you do to tease him and leave him wanting more, before your lips have even touch? Remember, the first kiss is always nice but it can set the tone for the rest of the relationship.
Think Twice Before Making The First Move
Since we are not living in the Stone Age any longer, it is completely acceptable to make the first move and kiss him first. However, some men still like to feel like they are in control of the situation, even if the relationship at the beginning stages. Therefore, if you make the first move, you could risk running him off. Besides, there is nothing wrong with making him work a little. Either way, by reading on you will see just how much you should give him before letting go on that first kiss and the kiss after that.
It’s Going To Be Light And Sweet
First of all, that first kiss should be light and sweet. Think Will Smith in the movie “Hitch”. He is more than likely going to use the 90/10 rule. He will move in 90 percent of the way and give you the last 10 percent of space to seal the deal.
When your lips finally meet, keep it short and sweet. Don’t get carried away, just hold onto the moment for as long as he does. Once he pulls away, end it. The lull after the kiss is exactly what you are looking for and builds the tension and anticipation that will make him crazy.
Don’t Make A Big Deal Out Of The Kiss
Continue with the activity you were doing before the kiss as if nothing happened. If you were talking, pick up where you left off and try to draw out the lull. The longer the time span, the more the anticipation will build. If you don’t resist, then he will lean in for another kiss. Just the same as before this kiss should be light and you should follow his lead, pull away when he does.
As the conversation dies down there will be a tension in the air leaving both of you to ponder that third kiss. If you can no longer resist is charm, this would be the moment to surprise him. You may be surprised when he pulls you closer, but his actions are the result of the anticipation that was hanging in the air from your previous encounters. As his kiss grows more passionate, you’ll be able to feel the built up tension, and you will enjoy every moment.
While it is not nice to tease, remember that the longer the time span between kisses the more the air will be filled with tension and anticipation. As a result, he will want that kiss more and more.
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